At school we meet people of different types
i.e people who see things and do things different from you. This people
especially the bullies can be problem to you. Many young people who are cult
gang,strong physically can intimidate you. you came to learn but there is a
problem at hand so lets find out how we can protect ourselves without violence.
1. Take lighthearted approach
Some bullies want to provoke you just to see how you will
react. The fact is that the way you react to a bully determines if he will
bully you or not.
Instead of getting offended when the bully provoke you
try to laugh.
‘if a bully sees that his words and attitude towards you
have little or no effect, he may stop the harassment’’ -johnson
2.
Kindly reply
Don’t be aggressive. A kind reply is what the bully least
expect. Self control is a strength; and it can defuse a tense situation.
Bullies are easily angry that is why you should be slow to angry. The bible further
explains ‘he that is slow to anger is better than a mighty man’-proverbs
16:32
3.
Protect yourself
If the situation seems out of control then you need an
escape route. If it will involve walking away, going home as early as possible,
do it and don’t stand on their way or places they can meet you; because they
may deal with you. Escaping is the best way you can protect yourself; don’t
mind, take the shame and escape.
“People who have respect for themselves don’t
fight”-johnson
4.
Report
If the situation is getting out of your control,
simply report to the school authority.
Your parents and guidance should also know about this
because they will help you with advice…
If someone provoke you: kindly address the person; not
with anger and always keep quite when you are angry, because in the state of
your anger you can say or do anything that will further the trouble.
Mind the way you dress at school so that you wont be a
target.
If you are already target tell the bully to stop, if he
continues then report.
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