Saturday 23 July 2016

5 WAYS TO KEEP SEX OFF YOUR MIND

Is there any young person who does not have feeling for sex?.....if yes please comment or notify us. The truth is that the urge to experience sex will always come up but you knowing the five ways to keep it aside will help you to resist the urge for sex. Many young people complains that, daily they fell like experiencing sex but if they can follow this they will be in a better chance of avoiding it.

1. Avoid porn
Many people come across pornography in the internet, television, and some other places but when ever they come across it, they either turn away immediately or look at it briefly or stare at it and even search for more.

Do you really want to keep sex off your mind?....if yes then avoid porn. Man is an emotional being what he sees records in his memory especially negative things and over time he gets used or stick to that thing I.e when you watch porn the more the urge for sex will rise. Do yourself good by avoiding pornography.

2.Follow your instinct
Have you ever experienced this; while watching porn(pornography) if someone sees you, even if he or she does not know you are watching porn, how do you fell? (uncomfortable). Do you find it difficult to ask the opposite gender for sex? Why? It's because your instinct is not sex. You are made with dignity don't break it even if you have deflowered don't give it a try again.

A worker in zenith  bank said "after working I go to bed and sleep I don't have time for sex". A journalist also said am not interested in sex again. The truth is that there is nothing special about sex but because you have not experienced it, that's why it seems as if there is something beautiful about it.

Have you ever bought a new shoe?....after using it 3 or 4 times you won't value it again as you valued it before; that is how sex is. After experiencing sex you will regret and end up in pain.

3. Association
This is one of the major reason why many young people involve in premarital sex. An evil seed will always corrupt.....At school, in the place of work or worship, if you always associate with people who watch porn or are addicted to sex, one day you will be moved to experience it and sex will constantly be in your mind.

Your peers and friends will always tell you about sex based on the way you behave. Note this...Do not show interest when ever your friends are talking about the opposite gender, ....Do not encourage sexual relationship or they will fell comfortable telling you about sex. And one problem is that if you always think about sex you will always loose focus.

4. Talk to someone
We have mentors and people who you can talk to about sex. If you are interested comment and give us your mobile (phone) number or send a mail to miraclemarkj@gmail.com

People who are ahead of you also had the same challenge, so if you can talk to them I think you will have a better chance of keeping sex off your mind.

5. Always pray
You can never overcome the urge for sex on your own, that is why you should always pray. Do you think Joseph of the Bible would have rejected the precious offer for sex by his master's wife if he was not spiritually strong.
In this generation many young people no longer pray and study the Bible that's why sex is just raising its ugly nature on daily basis.

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