At any level In life, failure is inevitable because it is a prove that you tried and
that you will succeed . Most people think failures are those who tried and failed but they are not. A failure is a person who does not want to try. By this I mean if you don't want to try then know you are a failure. Great dangers that facilitate failure are
I.IMPATIENCE
There is never a shortcut to success.No magic no ritual every great and massive success must be mastered.
This is one of themajor problem we have in Africa. Everyone wants to succeed but we all are not ready to wait for our success to come in its due season.
Impatience is a deadly locust that should be eliminated in our generation cos it has ended many in pain and punery. Majority of the people who never reached accomplishment and fulfillment were people who never waited.
Let me tell you a secret I discovered "when ever you are tired of trying or fell you should not wait again it means you are very close to success.
I heard of a story . A rich man promised to give one man who was poor 500000.00 (Nigeria currency) to start a business so that he can survive. This rich man was his childhood friend and the rich man explained that during their childhood the poor man helped him and was one of the people that made him what he was.
He invited the poor man to his office to have some talk with him and give him the money to start the business.
The rich man was an architect so he was always busy and was always going from one site to another, organization to another.
This is the 4th time the poor man is coming to his office and he was not around.
The next day the poor man came and decided to stay long and wait for the rich man in his house.
It was certain that the rich man will come back home just that he might come back late.
The poor man waited and waited and waited, after a long time he decided to go. He left cos of impatience but am asking what is he going home to do?. When he got home he shared his experience to his family.
The next day he called the rich man with his mobile phone and told him "you are wicked, so you just tricked me by lying. Don't give me any money again i am satisfied the way i am".
That day he called, was the day the rich man wanted to come to his house with the money since he heard the poor man was always coming.....oh see how impatience made this man remain poor for life.
2. FEAR
There is nothing you can't do and there is nothing that can stop you even failure. Many people keep complaining am afraid but they have not tried for ones.
What are you afraid of?....You will keep being afraid and may end up unfulfilled so just give it a try.
Don't expect success immediately you try cos we live in a world where uncertainty is certain.
Fear will make you regret, take the risk remove fear and you will see that there is nothing to be afraid of in life.
3. CONFUSION
This is one of the worst thing that can happen to someone. This is why purpose discovery is important. Please we can't talk about purpose discovery now cos we have done it before so check out for our older post on career trouble shooting.
Confusion will make you make lots of mistakes in life. Confusion can make you join a career lane that is not yours and one thing about confusion is that you might be doing well but you can never get joy compared to that thing you are passionate about.
Don't be confused......mastery is vital and failure is inevitable.
Please follow the things you see here and apply them in your life then the world will desperately need you.
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